We Are What We...Think

I was speaking with a client who thought her issue was one thing but through our session, she realized it was something totally different from what she'd originally thought.

Sometimes, the decisions we make in areas of our lives are really symptoms of other things that are buried beneath our conscious minds.  With life coaching, the important questions are asked to help you find your answers and your REAL life blocks. 

Soon after my divorce was final, I found myself a magnet for men who were, let us just say, “working on themselves”.  I honestly thought the Universe was playing games with me, trying to teach me some valuable lessons about humbleness!!  Now don’t get me wrong, what we go through is all part of our personal growth, however, I was beginning to think the Universe and I were going to need to have a serious sit down!!  But after some much needed self-reflection, I realized it wasn’t the Universe playing tricks, it was my mindset!

Growing up in an environment that was less than rich...much less than rich... seeing almost all of the young men in my life in some form of “growth”, I had taken on the female version of Captain Save-A-Ho! ..lol..  I called it the “Chief Save a Chump” syndrome.  Not only did I want to lift men up, I wanted to feel as if I was the pivotal point in their lives…I wanted to be looked at as that “got it together” chick. 

Turns out, men my age (40+) who need a woman to save them, aren’t really trying to be saved, they’re trying to be kept.  We need to let them save themselves!  But I can promise you this, as soon as my mindset changed, a totally new type of man began to show up. 

Now, let me say this…the “new type of man” showing up weren’t all necessarily FOR ME, but that homeless, jobless, transportation-less type of guy definitely disappeared. 

Ok, so all of this to say this…  once we change the way we think, change our mindset, that change is going to be what we will bring into our lives. 

So, … how are YOU thinking?

You can email me at RHRN@trenajones.com if you want to talk about it.  :-)